The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work.
You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.
Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
EP 184: How to Not Care what Other People Think
Parents of kids with baffling behaviors are CONSTANTLY being judged by others.
How do we get to a point where we don’t care as much about what other people think?
In this episode, we’ll explore:
- Some of the most common judgments that parents of kids with baffling behaviors receive
- How it’s actually not possible to not care at all, but we can care LESS
- Three things we can do so that the judgment from others doesn’t impact us as much as it does now
For a script on how to set boundaries with folks expressing judgment, go to: https://RobynGobbel.com/notcare
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- How Self-Compassion Changed Things For This Mom {EP 78}
- Influence Behaviors, Not Control {EP 101}
- Is Understanding Behavior Just Excusing It? {EP 109}
- Boundaries With Verbal Aggression With Juliane Taylor Shore {EP 115}
- Secure Relating With Guests Sue & Ann From Therapist Uncensored {EP 175}
- Juliane's Book! : Setting Boundaries That Stick
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/notcare
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