The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work.
You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.
Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!
The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}
REPLAY: Felt Safety (Between) - Part 3
Cues of safety, danger, or life threat come from three places- inside, outside, and between.
In part 3 of this series on felt safety, we are exploring felt safety from between- from relationship!
In this episode, you’ll learn
- How availability of connection is a cue of safety or danger
- How neuroception can tell the state of the other person’s nervous system (connection or protection?)
- Why nervous systems are contagious
- How ‘between’ cues of safety eventually become ‘inside’ cues of safety
- How you can increase your own experience of safety even when you are parenting children in stuck in chronic procession mode
Resources mentioned in this podcast:
- Connection Or Protection??? {Ep 7}
- When Your Nervous System Is Fried {Ep 139}
- Influence Behaviors, Not Control {Ep 101}
- Amanda Diekman’s Book! - Low-Demand Parenting
Read the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/feltsafetybetween
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